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Head Table or Sweetheart Table: Which is Right for You?

Summary

When planning your wedding reception, deciding between a head table and a sweetheart table affects both your layout and guest experience. Whether you want privacy as a couple or to sit with your party, this guide explores both setups and includes styling tips using round tablecloths and table runners.
Enhance the look even further by pairing these prints with a statement red tablecloth to ground your setup in rich, romantic color.

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What Is a Head Table?

A head table is a long table where the newlyweds sit alongside their wedding party. It’s typically placed at the front of the reception area, facing the guest tables.

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Pros:

 

  • Great for celebrating with your closest friends and family
  • Visually anchors the reception layout
  • Encourages group interaction

 

Cons:

 

  • Limited privacy for the couple
  • May be logistically harder to coordinate seating with large wedding parties

 

For décor, head tables look beautiful with cheesecloth table runners and a matching color palette for napkins, floral centerpieces, and candles. 

To complete the look, start with a rich red tablecloth as your base to enhance the head table’s elegance and tie all elements together seamlessly.

What Is a Sweetheart Table?

A sweetheart table is a small, often round, table that seats only the newlyweds. It allows the couple to share quiet moments during the reception while still being visible to guests.

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Pros:

 

  • Offers a moment of calm and intimacy
  • Easier to decorate with dramatic or romantic details
  • Simplifies seating chart logistics

 

Cons:

 

  • Might feel isolated from your wedding party
  • Not ideal if you prefer being surrounded by loved ones during the reception

 

Sweetheart tables can be styled with bold linens, statement floral arrangements, and unique backdrops for photos.

Styling Tips for Each Option

Head Table Styling Ideas

 

  • Use a long table with full-length polyester linens
  • Mix-and-match chairs with chair sashes in your theme color
  • Add name cards, charger plates, and floral runners for a unified look

 

Sweetheart Table Styling Ideas

 

  • Pick a statement linen like sequins or rosettes
  • Add a floral backdrop or balloon arches
  • Include personal touches like framed photos, candles, or embroidered napkins

 

Both setups benefit from a consistent color scheme that ties into your guest tables and overall venue design.

Factors to Consider Before Choosing

 

  • Venue Layout: Smaller venues may benefit from a sweetheart table to maximize floor space.
  • Wedding Party Size: Large bridal parties may make head tables feel cluttered.
  • Photography: A sweetheart table often allows for more artistic couple shots.
  • Guest Experience: Head tables may feel more communal and festive.

 

Ultimately, your decision should reflect your personality and priorities. Some couples even combine both a sweetheart table for dinner and a switch to the head table during toasts or the party.

FAQs

Can I have both a sweetheart table and a head table?

Yes. Some couples start with a sweetheart table during dinner for privacy and join their party at a head table later in the evening.

Do I need to decorate a sweetheart table differently?

Yes. Since it’s smaller and more central, you can go bold with linens, backdrops, and centerpiece designs that reflect your style.

Which table is better for smaller weddings?

Sweetheart tables work well for intimate weddings as they simplify seating arrangements and highlight the couple in a cozy setting.

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